I’ve had this thing for a few years that I do whenever you’re having one of those everything’s goes wrong days! Well fig I can either suffer or laugh? I take whatever situation small or huge and challenge myself to find at least one positive aspect that comes from the “horrible unfair thing” and I 99% of the time end up smiling and or laughing! So for that extreme devastating unbareable (so we feel/think at the time) pain inside our hearts, souls, and spirits…. Remember… If you didn’t feel that anymore than you need major help coming to…life again? When we feel… We are human and have compassion, passion, sympathy… And so on… So if you get to the point you are completely numb and don’t “feel” anymore please reach out for help! I’ve been there a few times! But I take pride in my endurance and strength to recognize where I’ve ended up and still reach out screaming for hep!